Pain

you can definitely learn a lot at a funeral. but more than at a feast, i dont know. lets see a funeral has a point and purpose. a feast is full of many going ons and can be distracting. you are more likely to learn a more general thing at a feast.
trying to remember extreme sorrow. not sure if ive felt that or not. as far as learning something out of it i dont think i would have. im not too open to recieveing anything when im upset. is crying better than laughing? better for what? sometimes i laugh so much i cry. its and odd interpretation but yeah crying kinda scrapes things away while laughter doesnt.